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Inside: New Survey by Mercer on What Employees Really Think About AI at Work

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Hey HR Pros!
Forget LinkedIn. Some candidates are swiping right on potential employersāliterally.
In a surprising shift, job seekers are turning to dating apps to make professional connections, land interviews, and even score offers. No, this isnāt about innovationāitās more of a signal that traditional hiring channels may no longer feel human enough.
Upcoming In This Issue:
š±Swipe Right for a Job? Welcome to the New Networking Frontier
š Shadow AI Is Everywhereāand HR Canāt Ignore It
š„ What Happens When Layoffs Hit the Internet First
New Survey by Mercer | What Employees Really Think About AI at Work
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š±Swipe Right for a Job? Welcome to the New Networking Frontier
Dating appsāyes, reallyāhave become the latest unexpected tool in the modern job search.
From expanding professional networks to landing actual interviews, candidates are experimenting with more direct, more personal ways to make career connections.
For HR leaders, it raises critical questions about how disconnected the formal recruiting process has become from the human connections candidates are craving.
Key Takeaways for HR Professionals
š¼ 1 in 3 dating app users now use the platforms for career goals; nearly 10% signed up primarily to find job opportunities.
š² 88% made real professional connections via dating apps, with over half meeting in person and 39% scoring interviews.
šÆ 75% swipe with purpose, targeting matches in roles or companies of interest; 66% seek connections at top-tier companies.
ā ļø Scams are a rising riskāas job seekers innovate, HR must rethink how to compete with informal, personal-first networking.
š Shadow AI Is Everywhereāand HR Canāt Ignore It
Shadow AI isnāt just a tech or compliance issueāitās a human behavior problem hiding in plain sight.
Whatās driving this behavior isnāt ignorance, but confidenceāespecially among so-called āAI power usersā who know the rules and choose to break them anyway.
For HR leaders, this represents a new frontier in trust, governance, and workforce engagement.
Shadow AI: Critical Insights for HR Leaders
š 81% of employees use shadow AI tools, and among security leaders, that number jumps to 88%āmany use them regularly.
š Employees who recall AI security training are more likely to use shadow AIāawareness increases usage, not compliance.
ā ļø 45% of employees find workarounds when AI tools are blockedāpolicy enforcement without buy-in is largely ineffective.
š¤ 24% of workers trust AI more than their managerāa sign of eroding workplace trust HR must urgently address.
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š„ What Happens When Layoffs Hit the Internet First
When CondĆ© Nast folded Teen Vogue into Vogue.com, six unionized staffers were laid off, sparking a protest outside the Chief People Officerās office. A video of that confrontationāfeaturing repeated dismissals from leadershipāquickly went viral.
Within days, four employees were fired, five suspended, and the real damage had already been done: employee trust collapsed, and the brand's employer reputation took a hit.
The story reveals more than just a failed reorgāitās a case study in how HR communication, or the lack of it, can spiral into a crisis.
Key Takeaways for HR Professionals
š Only 50% of employees feel internal communications are clearādespite 80% of leaders believing they are. That gap widens under pressure.
šØļø 36% of employees want feedback loopsābut most layoffs still happen with one-way messaging and zero dialogue.
šø Miscommunication costs companies up to $10,140 per employee/year, mostly in lost productivity and wasted clarity.
š” 43% performance boost when employees feel valuedāproof that tone and empathy arenāt optional in tough conversations.
š New Survey by Mercer | What Employees Really Think About AI at Work
In a global survey of over 8,500 employees across a dozen industries, fearānot excitementāis growing alongside AI adoption.
The data suggests a clear takeaway: this is a leadership and communication crisis.
For HR leaders, the mission now is to connect, clarify, and lead with transparency before workforce confidence erodes even further.

By the Numbers: What HR Must Know
š 85% of UAE workers use AI for work ā but 44% are hesitant to adopt new tools, fearing role displacement.
ā ļø <10% of European workers fear AIās job impact, correlating with lower exposure to AI in daily tasks.
šŖ Entry and mid-level roles are most at risk, yet frontline workers are the least informed about AIās impact on their careers.
š” Employees paid fairly are 1.8x more likely to spend significant time learning new skillsāpay equity is a driver of reskilling.
š <20% have heard from a manager about how AI will affect their jobādespite 1 in 3 lacking confidence in future guidance.
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Sophia Bennett | Editor-in-Chief | HR Insights Today





